Self harm is a way of coping with things when you can’t manage them in a more sensible, reasonable fashion. It doesn’t make people strong, weak, stupid or brave. It’s just something some people do that needs to be corrected through medical help and family/friendly support. Wish everyone would stop going on about it. It’s attracting a lot of hatred, making a lot of people upset and sometimes even glorifying it to impressionable people suffering a difficult time, looking for a release.